My question is if you can ever use the word Love to much?
When I talk about my daughter to people I gush, I know I do, and they always act like I am a freak for doing so. I say I love her probably 20 to 40 times a day, my friend told me that a parent can over say it to their child, is that true? Ashley tells me she loves me first thing in the morning, when she leaves for school, randomly while hugging me, at night, if she leaves...and I never thought it was over used, I just enjoyed hearing it.
My friend told me that I was making her dependent on me and hearing those words, that by saying I love you to her so much she was going to be a needy adult, is she right?
I would like to think that a parent showing their love to a child would be a good thing, that you could never say it enough. I would hope that every child hears those words multiple times and that they themselves feel good enought to say them as well. I would hope expressing you love to a child could never be to much, i would hope that seeing my smart, independent child would be proof of that.
When I speak about my animals I say I love them, sure its not any where near the type of love I have for Ashley, but I do love them. I was told that saying that about a pet is wierd, that I am going to be the crazy lady down the street with all the animal children lol, I know that thats not true, but it makes me wonder.
My dogs are a huge part of my life, I spend more time with them everyday then my family. I enjoy goofing off with them, I enjoy cuddling with them, I can't get enough of their silly antics, is that wierd? I do love them, I am an animal lover, I absolutly love my goofy group of dogs!!!! I have a different bond with each of them, Puppers has been in my life for 13 years, hes grown up with my daughter, he was my brothers best friend before coming to live with me, he is my protector...Lady is 10 years old, she stole my heart from day one, she a happy go lucky cuddle bug who lives to please you, she goes everywhere with us...the puppies, Libby and Leia have rounded out my family, Leia is all about playing and being silly, shes my ADHD baby lol and Libby is my sweet natured, lovable girl who has so many of Puppers characteristics, she is my velcro puppy lol (stuck to my side like velcro). So is it wierd that I love them? I hope not.
Now don't get me wrong I don't love everyone, and I have never said I love you to a man without meaning it, hell I have only ever said it to 3 guys. I love Ken, I love him so much, its not a needy kinda love, like where you need that person to be whole or anything lol, but I love him because I want to be with him all the time, I look forward to our time togather.
I wonder how people view love, especialy since my friend brought it up, tellign em I say it to much to the people in my life? So can you say the word Love to much? I don't know...
Anywyas heres a pic to enjoy, its Tigger "Loving" Ashley lol. Tigger always wants to be with her lol, he even knocks on the door to come in to be with her lol
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